Why Do Black Men Love White Women? (Photos)

Michael Jordan with Yvette Prieto (who is allegedly his fiancee')
Michael Jordan with Yvette Prieto (who is allegedly his fiancee')

Once again, someone out there is enamored with the thought that black men are suffering from a sort of “white flight.”  While it’s true that you may see  a lot of successful entertainers and athletes with white women …  In the hood?  Not so much.  But one website is exploring the fascination with white women and has started a dialogue for everyone to weigh in on. 

The site, afieldnegro.com, has put together a plethora of examples that may or may not be surprising in an effort to open up the floor to this discussion.  Black men and women have been in the crosshairs of the world for centuries.  The only unusual dynamic playing itself out in black relationships is that in the trenches, we aren’t getting closer, we are at war there too.  It should be a fascinating undertaking to find out why.

But, until we get to the bottom of the controversy, check out the pictures that afieldnegro.com generated to explore the many relationships out there that have the consistent formula of:

Negro + Anyone but black women = Happiness

-J.C. Brooks

150 thoughts on “Why Do Black Men Love White Women? (Photos)”

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  3. I see the reality of the some of our answers was a bit much for you all. But those answers however brutal and stinging they are what a growing number of black men feel. The proof is in the pudding. Disabling the previous 100 comments won’t get American black women a husband or a meaningful relationship anytime soon. I can count on one hand the black women in my life who have a man. Google the statistics on the percentage of black women who will never attend their own wedding or just simply have a real boyfriend. It’s no coincidence. So are you gonna put the blind fold on to keep from seeing reality, or do you put your big girl panties on and just entertain the thought for a second that you just might be your biggest problem? Or better yet disable the answers to the question you asked and pretend you didn’t get your answers. Lemme know how that works out for ya’.

  4. Why shouldn’t black men marry white women? One is free to marry whomsoever he loves regardless of the skin color because what matters is not the color but true love, sincerity, loyalty and understanding which is found in most white women.I am black agricultural engineer in Mozambique-Africa seeking a white or Asian woman who will not look at my financial stability or my skin but will look into my heart…

  5. I have strong feelings about this topic as a black woman. I see it as this, if a one guy is wearing a nice pair of Air Jordan’s then his boys got to go and get a pair. I feel as though if one gets one, then they all got to get one. I feel that some black me are in competition with one another on who can get the best one, whether it be a pair of shoes, car, or a WW. Whatever the trend is, they want to be apart of it. I have witnessed this plenty of times. A black man at home playing video games, while he is telling his WW what to do…(set the table, the dryer is going off, get lil kenny of the bus, grab me a cold one. I then here the WW say ohhhhk, as she rolls her eyes behind his back, but yet won’t say anything to him. They love that feeling of control!

  6. I’m white, and I love black women…they’re more level headed & more honest than white women….the average white woman will believe any lie a man will tell her just so she doesn’t have to confront. The black woman will confront anything that doesn’t add up,…outsmarting & enraging most black men who are playing games….I’ve been with more than several black women, and every single one always says the same thing, black men will always be little boys, lying, self absorbed, and about a 2 minute selffish lover. Every black woman under the covers with a white cowboy says, “You see the light when you go white.” Sorry brothers, but most of you are short changing your sisters, and they’re tired of it…bypass the beautiful black women, run and grab some dumb blonde who can’t tie her shoes, and I’ll be there to pick ‘em up…

  7. @ white snake,

    I like the way you think….. lol,,,,,there’s nothing wrong with you cowboys.

  8. why do all of u idiots have a problem with blkmen and whitewomen being in love? u just can not stand 2 see blkmales and white females together..how come u idiots don’t ever post nagative things about those low class blkwomen who run 2 every white guy they see,even if he looks like an orangertane

  9. I don’t have a problem with black men dating/marrying white women. I have a problem with the false illusion that it is acceptable by blacks and whites. I have seen many interracial relationships where families suffer and struggle because one or the other does not approve of interracial relationships. I have seen white families disown daughters because they got involved with or married a black man. I have seen many black families who raised and nurtured black athletes thinking they would reap the benefits of struggling to put him through college and when the dust settles he marries a white woman; then the white woman and her family reaps all of the benefits from his success. He black people who provided and made his success possible are left scratching their heads wondering how he could turn everything over to them just like that. I have seen many white women who forbid her rich white husband from providing for his poor black family members. This can go both ways, but I find it difficult to accept a black man making a white family rich while ignoring his own family. This is reality and it happens all of the time. Black men are so clueless because they feel this white woman want them things other than their status and money. Nicole Brown and her family accepted OJ Simpson because of his status and fame. They disregarded the fact that OJ was married with a family, they had their own agenda, go OJ away from his family and their Hertz rental business took flight thanks to OJ. But they forgot to factor in the reality that OJ was not a decent man, they forgot to consider that OJ abandoned his wife and family for Nicole and sooner or later he would do it to Nicole. OJ was a total idiot, but when white women go on that status hunt for a black man, they only see the color or green and nothing else

  10. right on foxiidiamond,glad u like us broths,we blkguys love u white sexy sistas also.most blackwomen will run over us blk guys just 2 be with a white guy,that is the reason i don’t like blkwomen,,now u idiots comment on that,i know u will.

  11. @Ro…. I know everyone would want to argue your point… But white women are just like black women in so many ways… You found a good woman keep her…. I’ve been married for 25 years and my husband is white…. We have taught our kids to date whomever they feel worthy of them…. You keep pressing on.. And enjoy your life… This whole black/ white thing is so overrated… Everytime I come to the states… It’s always a issue…

  12. hey everyone. im a black latino/hispanic man mixed of Brazilian, Dominican, and Haitian. both of my parents are black and from 2 different countries but i do not see color in the person your heart loves. my fiancee is puerto rican and her hair is thick like mine because her grandparents are black from puerto rico. and her skin is like mariah carey. i think its what on the inside that counts, not the race.

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  15. Hey, looks like this thread’s almost dead by now (took years though, amazing), but I’ll comment anyways.

    There’s been a LOT of generalizing going on here, and not in anyone’s advantage. I can safely say that not all WW are dating black men because of their money or status. Of course there are women who only care about status and money, but it has nothing to do with race. Some people have posted some really ignorant comments, like BM would prefer WW because they can boss them around. That’s BS, there are tons of strong WW, just as I’m sure the comments about BW being loud and unfeminine are BS.
    It’s not a skin tone thing, it’s a personality thing.

    To me it’s obvious that you can’t really help who you fall in love with or even who you find attractive. If it works out or not is a different question.
    I’m Swedish, and I’ve dated black men born in Sweden as well as American white men. It was a lot easier to date the Swedish black man, for obvious cultural reasons. I wouldn’t go as far as the German up there and say I love black men, but then again I don’t love white or asian men either. I will say though that I think it’s sad with people who limit themselves to falling in love with people of a certain race, cause they’re missing out on a lot of great people.

  16. One more thing, about the pictures attached to the article. Seriously. Mekhi Phifer’s and Wayne Brady’s wives are obviously asian. If there has to be a race talk (not the biggest fan of the term race), then at least one should get the races right.

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  20. Why don’t you guys just ask a black man why he’s dating outside his race? I’ve been married to my German wife for 23 years, simply because I love her! That doesn’t mean I hate black women, it’s my choice! The same way women feel they have a right to abort a child, they laid there and conceived, a man has a right to date whom ever he decides to. If you have a man it shouldn’t matter!!!!!

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  29. It is a shame, but the black athletes are striking back at the white man’s culture by taking a white woman and holding her as his trophy. The black woman would never let him get away with bastards in every other city and hitting her, only to give a huge diamond to say ” he be sorry”. Black women are often crude and mouthy, beyond belief, just watch tv and witness the attitude. The black ” temporary millionaire wants a white vagina and a quiet mouth. It is mostly for show, and the start is usually in college, when white trashy girls will bed a future millionaire and make their Daddy’s mad as hell. A game that cheerleaders and campus tour girls play with the tightest of pants and no panties on. It’s also a game for the black athlete to score a hot white girl, or even anally rape her, ala Kobe Bryant.

  30. First let me say that I just found this article and will be searching for more like. I would also like to say that your comments are so passionately written, its as though I can actually hear your voices thru the screen. And you’ve all made valid points. Why do black men love white women? There are many answers to that question.

    1.) He’s attracted to white women. At whatever young age, black males began comparing black female skin and white female skin. Also hair, eyes, face, smile, etc. Plus, I also include the fact that many black women taught/told/gave their black children the impression that “white is right.” Black children were/still are being called ugly by ignorant blacks which includes black males. ALL BLACK CHIDREN INTERNALIZE things said about them at an early age. Till this day, I hear adult black males call their own children black ni**as, black bi**hes, black mot**rfuck***. That sounds ugly, bad, and unwanted.

    2.) During the black man’s childhood all the way to adulthood, he’s witnessed many black women being angry, mad, and bitter. So have I. Most of the times, these black females are mad about nothing or something that captures the attention of others. Basically, these types are bullies who want to control everything and everybody. Black men DO NOT want this type as a mate.

    3.) A lot of black women don’t want a man. They’d rather have a few men. Surely, she’s not relationship/marriage material. At least not until she’s ready to settle down. These females enjoy being single even though they’ll complain about it. Being single allows her to come and goe as she pleases, invite whomever over to her place, and not get questioned about it. This spells F-R-E-E-D-O-M to them b/c thats what being single is and she’s pleased with it.

    4.) Black men DO NOT agree w/ many of the black woman’s way of life or how she thinks. Stubborn black women feel as though she knows everything and everything she says or does is right.

  31. Whenever ANYONE disagrees w/ a think-she-knows-it-all black female, she views them as an enemy. Even a black man she’s involved with. She doesn’t like other people’s opinions b/c her’s are more important than anyone else’s. She doesn’t LISTEN very well b/c she prefers to talk over and louder.

    5.) Black males, such as Dr. Dre, DO NOT want children w/ dark skin. Suge Knight said this about Dre years ago. When Dre was ready to find a wife and make some children, he told Suge that he didn’t want any black children. Suge advised Dre to hook up w/ a light-skinned chick. Mind you, Dre had already had a son w/ the R&B singer Michele’. Dre and countless others make a conscious decision to date/marry a light-skinned/non-black woman b/c of the self-hatred towards their own skin color. It could also be that black males have seen w/ their own eyes how many black females neglect their own black children. Black men have grown up in such households and they don’t want their children going thru life being raised by an unfit mother.

    6.) Overall, black people have problems that have absolutely nothing to do w/ racism, slavery, or the white race. I believe that slavery and racism are 150 (or more) year excuses that black leaders in particular have overloaded our brains with. Today, you can research black leaders and discover very disturbing info about them. Slavery and racism had nothing, absolutely nothing to do w/ their behavior or actions. They are also products of broken homes, unfit parents, and messed up childhoods. The white man nor the gov’t can be blamed for what they went thru or as children or what they put themselves thru as adults.

    What does slavery or racism have to do w/ Martin cheating on Coretta w/ black and white prostitutes?

    How’s racism or slavery a part of the sexual discrimination lawsuit brought upon Jesse by an openly gay black man?

    Does racism or slavery have anything to do w/ blacks killing more blacks than the KKK?

  32. The civil rights movement destroyed black people’s economic base. Instead of developing jobs for ourselves, civil rights activists bombarded white neighborhoods and the gov’t demanding white people to give blacks jobs, allow backs to dine in white-owned restaurants and whatnot. That wasn’t the way to accomplish anything. Before all of those protests and boycotts, black people owned/had a lot of things. Schools, legit businesses, 2 or 3 railroads, hospitals, which employed black people. Was there anything wrong with blacks having something of their own back then? What did Martin, Jesse, and other activist think blacks were gonna obtain by leading them into dangerous situations like getting beaten up by night sticks, biting by dogs, and sprayed w/ water hoses? This happened to millions of black people. Whenever I watch clips of these marches I wonder, ” Did blacks enjoy that type of punishment?” And why would so-called black leaders LEAD them to it? Its kinda like handing blacks over to the KKK to be tortured.

    Then came the crack cocaine/HIV/AIDS epidemics. No black male or black female who participated in the drug game were qualified to be suitable mates. Those spidemics reduced men and women to lowdown scum and unfit humans. What was also bad was the fact that young black adults/children were taught to give drug dealers and addicts of any age respect. That was bullshit then and it is now. B/C now those youngsters have become ruthless dealers, gang bangers, and criminals. Hence, black-on-black crime. Even more unsuitable mates. And there’s nobody to blame but confused and ignorant blacks.


  33. I forgot to mention something else. In actuality and reality, the white woman really isn’t better than the black woman. Eventually, black men found out how deceiving, manipulative, and conniving white women can be. They learn the hard way that there’s a such thing as a no-good white woman/non-black woman. And they have problems just like everybody else.

  34. I would first like to address the comments made by Quuikk and by Ro. While I fully understand that doing so will cause me to be unfairly labeled as bitter and jealous, I will willingly take that chance. I am also fully aware that my comments come literally years after the original post, but I feel that they are still relevant.
    Quuikk, you spoke of the brutality and honesty of some of the comments toward black women and how we can be our own biggest enemy. The truth of the matter is that when we are dealing with a majority of black men who have bought into the stereotype of what beauty is and how white is better, there is no level of grace, class, or intelligence that we can display that will change your mind. The excuse that black women are too loud, too masculine, and too combative are excuses that black men tend to use to justify behavior and social choices.
    I have noticed that black men tend to be the only race of men who apply negative stereotypes to their own women as justification to turn to and provide for women who look nothing like them, which brings me to the point I would like to make in response to the comment that Ro made:
    Black women who probably not have a problem with black men choosing white women at all if you would just do it without the big production. No other group of men tend to take to social media and celebrate their “finds” , as if you’ve made some major accomplishment by dating outside of your race the way black men do.
    What was once extremely hurtful has slowly become laughable when I see black men who equate non-black with “winning”. Its almost as if he actually thinks the white woman would give him the time if not for his financial status or possibly a sexual fetish or curiosity. I am not suggesting that love can not exist but I am suggesting that when the numbers are so great it suggests that there is an active seeking of these non-black partners on the part of the man.
    I also notice that black men are ever-increasingly playing an active role in their own demise by intentionally making children who look nothing like them. I’m curious as to how it must feel for a man to look at a child that he created and not see himself in that child.
    In years to come, ironically, the noticeably black men who prefer non-black women will no longer even exist.
    So to my friend Quuikk……..let me know how that works for YOU.

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  36. What a bunch of ignoramuses! Let’s generalize about white women as doormats, and let’s hear generalizations about how he prefers black women because they’re more “level-headed”. Geezus! See beyond your narrow little frames of reference and generalizations. People are people! Get over yourselves! Smh.

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  38. The simple and best answer is……For those who do love WW, each of them have their own PERSONAL reasons therefore there is no general answer that covers all. Now if you were really wanting personal answers, you should have asked for them but since you did not, you want arguments, innuendo and nasty attacks. Those that responded as such are as sheep to the slaughter. Responsible articles and reporting online are a thing of the past. What a shame.

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